Washington Commanders quarterback Sam Hartman was announced as the lead of The Bachelor Season 30 on November 13, bringing renewed attention to his dating history. Hours after ABC confirmed his casting, a woman named Becca Hunt publicly described a past relationship with Hartman as toxic, while fans also revisited his reported romance with former Wake Forest soccer player Tyla Ochoa.
Hartman, 27, has generally kept his personal relationships private. He previously confirmed having a girlfriend during a 2024 podcast appearance but did not identify her by name. Ochoa was widely believed to be the woman he referenced, although neither publicly confirmed the relationship.
Who Is Sam Hartman’s Ex-Girlfriend Tyla Ochoa?
Tyla Ochoa is a former college soccer player who attended Wake Forest University in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, from 2021 to 2024. She played for the university’s women’s soccer team while Hartman was establishing himself as one of the Atlantic Coast Conference’s leading quarterbacks.
Ochoa graduated in December 2024 with a degree in politics and international affairs. Her senior soccer season was affected by an injury that limited her to one appearance.
After college, Ochoa pursued a career in business. She worked for TEKsystems in Charleston, South Carolina, before joining DFND Security in Charlotte, North Carolina, as a senior manager of business operations in August 2026.
How Did Sam Hartman and Tyla Ochoa Meet?
Hartman and Ochoa were first romantically linked in 2022 after appearing together in social media posts. Both were student-athletes at Wake Forest, although the exact circumstances of their first meeting have not been publicly established.
During a 2024 appearance on the Unemployable podcast, Hartman confirmed that he was dating a Wake Forest soccer player.
“I have a girlfriend. She plays soccer at Wake Forest. And she’s awesome. She’s great. She’ll be down here for the draft and everything,” Hartman said.
He also explained that his girlfriend had another season of college eligibility remaining because she had previously redshirted.
Those details led fans to identify Ochoa as his possible girlfriend. However, Hartman did not mention her name during the interview.
Why Did Sam Hartman and Tyla Ochoa Break Up?
Speculation about a breakup emerged in early 2025 when social media users noticed that Hartman and Ochoa appeared to have stopped following each other online.
Neither publicly announced a separation or explained what happened between them. Reports suggesting that their relationship ended in 2025 remain based largely on social media observations.
Hartman’s selection for The Bachelor indicates that he is entering the reality dating competition as a single man. However, there is no verified public statement establishing when his reported relationship with Ochoa ended.
Becca Hunt Makes Claims About Her Past Relationship With Hartman
Another woman, Becca Hunt, attracted attention shortly after Hartman’s Bachelor casting was announced.
On November 13, Hunt shared a photograph featuring herself and Hartman on social media and described their past relationship.
“The most toxic relationship in my life is now the bachelor LOL,” she wrote.
Hunt later addressed the reaction to her post in the comments.
“Look, y’all, I am not going to say anything more [about] this; I just thought it was ironic because it’s a dating show.”
She also clarified that her statement was not intended to place all responsibility on Hartman.
“also, saying it was the most toxic relationship of my life is not putting all the blame on him. Just ironic he’s now on a dating show. Hope this helps!”
Hunt did not publicly provide a detailed timeline of their relationship. Hartman had not publicly responded to her comments in the reporting available following the announcement.
What Is Sam Hartman Looking for on The Bachelor?
Hartman discussed his expectations for a future partner during his November 13 appearance on Good Morning America.
The former Notre Dame quarterback said he values ambition, competitiveness and compassion. He explained that he wants someone whose personal goals motivate him to improve.
Hartman also acknowledged feeling nervous about dating multiple women on television.
“I’m excited but also very nervous,” he said. “I have a tough time holding conversation with one girl. 30 is going to be pretty tough.”
The quarterback initially hesitated to accept the television opportunity but reconsidered after speaking with host Jesse Palmer, a former NFL player who previously appeared as the Bachelor.
ABC has confirmed that The Bachelor Season 30 will premiere on Sunday, March 21, 2027, at 8 p.m. Eastern Time. Episodes will stream on Hulu the following day, while Hartman remains a member of the Washington Commanders’ practice squad.
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